“A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children: And the wealth of the sinner is laid up for the just. Much food is in the tillage of the poor: But there is that is destroyed for want of judgment. He that spareth his rod hateth his son: But he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.”
Proverbs 13:22-24 KJV
Wisdom from above says, “The benevolent man leaves an inheritance that endures to his children’s children, but the wealth of the wicked is treasured up for the righteous. The lovers of God will live a long life and get to enjoy their wealth, but the ungodly will suddenly perish. If you withhold correction and punishment from your children, you demonstrate a lack of true love. So prove your love and be prompt to punish them.” Many of us have taken for granted the legacy that came to us from our parents and grandparents with a sense of entitlement but it comes from God. Those who don’t find the way of life destroy many years of wealth and some are utterly destroyed. Corporal punishment was common when parents disciplined their children with love in their hearts wanting their best to learn godly values and clean living. Unfortunately today the system looks for excuses like mental health issues to excuse parents from their responsibility so that children grow up to be irresponsible in society. When it is a genuinely medical issue, the medical world is there to help, but in general children grow up to be indisciplined with a huge sense of entitlement which is a terrible combination. If we love our children, discipline is necessary. Amen!